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Lyn HH's avatar

I absolutely agree with you about feeling pressured. Social media plays a huge part in this. If you like one charity doing something on facebook, there will be a plethora of similar that arrive in your account with gloomy pictures. As you say, you can’t give to all and feel the guilt but bypass. However, yes we pay our taxes but the Government isn’t looking after people are they? The resources aren’t prioritised and the policies are woefully short or short sighted. I agree there is a place for social enterprise but the projects you mentioned all deal with people who have the capacity to be involved. People with mental health or addiction problems probably don’t fall into that category. They simply may not be able to proactively deliver to being involved and thus being helped. They do need help and largely rely on charities to support them. The Government does not prioritise refugees and many are dependent on charities. I also don’t agree with you about scrutiny. It is better than ever. In the 70s whistleblowing was unacceptable. Now it is totally acceptable. I worked for a very well known UK Charity in the past. We had rigorous reporting regimes and evaluations for our donor projects and were expected to deliver. If you didn’t, you did not get the next tranche of funding. Our givers were also powerful and gave feedback on a number of areas that they thought we could improve on. We made the changes. There is a very strong likelihood that charities underperforming will hit the press and we have seen examples of that in recent years, especially around the area of exploitation by those in position in countries where projects are undertaken. There are methods to report suspected fraudulent charities. This doesn’t make it any easier for us to turn a blind eye sometimes in the face of so many requests carefully tailored to our sympathies, however, it is short sighted to hope that the Government will sort everything or that social enterprise is the answer for all. I think Tim with what you have experienced with depression, you would appreciate, if a charity said right up you get and join our social enterprise on whatever, would you have been able to do? I doubt it. You were lucky you had your parents. What about those who have no one any more? We still need charities and just have to be discerning about which we support and proactive about exposing those that don’t work legitimately.

Alexia Bartlett's avatar

What I really hate (which is always an excellent start to any comment) is the way in which Facebook friends write a public post saying, “For my birthday this year, instead of giving me presents, please send donations to (whatever) charity”. I feel like replying, “Well I wouldn’t give you a present anyway, so you can stick your guilt trip up your collection box”. And then I make a particular point of not wishing them ‘happy birthday’ because that’s the sort of mean-spirited old rubbish bag I am. I’m also lonely and unpopular, for some reason.

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